绝对不惹老板发火的9个原则
<font size="5"><font color="#333333"><font face="新宋体"> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0cm 0cm 0pt"><span style="font-size:10pt;font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:calibri;mso-hansi-font-family:calibri;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin">有句话</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size:10pt"><font face="Calibri">,</font></span><span style="font-size:10pt;font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:calibri;mso-hansi-font-family:calibri;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin">离职看老板</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size:10pt"><font face="Calibri">,</font></span><span style="font-size:10pt;font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:calibri;mso-hansi-font-family:calibri;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin">在如今的大难当头情势下</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size:10pt"><font face="Calibri">,</font></span><span style="font-size:10pt;font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:calibri;mso-hansi-font-family:calibri;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin">拍好老板马屁</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size:10pt"><font face="Calibri">,</font></span><span style="font-size:10pt;font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:calibri;mso-hansi-font-family:calibri;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin">与你的上司和睦相处变得尤为重要</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size:10pt"><font face="Calibri">.</font></span><span style="font-size:10pt;font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:calibri;mso-hansi-font-family:calibri;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin">对我们的身心、前途都有极大的影响。以下</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size:10pt"><font face="Calibri">9 </font></span><span style="font-size:10pt;font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:calibri;mso-hansi-font-family:calibri;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin">条准则供参考：</span><b><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size:10pt"><br /><strong><span style="font-family:'calibri','sans-serif';mso-bidi-font-family:'times new roman';mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-bidi-theme-font:minor-bidi"> 1.</span></strong></span></b><strong><span style="font-size:10pt;font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:calibri;mso-hansi-font-family:calibri;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-bidi-font-family:'times new roman';mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-bidi-theme-font:minor-bidi">倾听当上司讲话的时候，要排除一切使你紧张的意念，专心聆听。</span></strong><span style="font-size:10pt;font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:calibri;mso-hansi-font-family:calibri;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin">眼睛注视着他，不要埋着头，必要时作一点记录。他讲完以后，你可以稍思片刻，也可问一两个</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size:10pt"><a href="http://www.ceconlinebbs.com/LT/&Icirc;&Ecirc;&Igrave;&acirc;.HTM" target="_blank" swaped="true"><span lang="EN-US" style="color:windowtext;font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:calibri;mso-hansi-font-family:calibri;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin"><span lang="EN-US">问题</span></span></a></span><span style="font-size:10pt;font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:calibri;mso-hansi-font-family:calibri;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin">，真正弄懂其意图。然后概括一下上司的谈话内容，表示你已明白了他的意见。切记，上司不喜欢那种思维迟钝、需要反复叮嘱的人。</span><b><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size:10pt"><br /><strong><span style="font-family:'calibri','sans-serif';mso-bidi-font-family:'times new roman';mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-bidi-theme-font:minor-bidi"> 2.</span></strong></span></b><strong><span style="font-size:10pt;font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:calibri;mso-hansi-font-family:calibri;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-bidi-font-family:'times new roman';mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-bidi-theme-font:minor-bidi">简洁简洁，就是有所选择、直截了当、十分清晰地向上司报告。</span></strong><span style="font-size:10pt;font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:calibri;mso-hansi-font-family:calibri;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin">准备记录是个好办法。使上司在较短的时间内，明白你报告的全部内容。如果必须提交一份详细报告，那最好就在文章前面搞一个内容提要。</span><b><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size:10pt"><br /><strong><span style="font-family:'calibri','sans-serif';mso-bidi-font-family:'times new roman';mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-bidi-theme-font:minor-bidi"> 3.</span></strong></span></b><strong><span style="font-size:10pt;font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:calibri;mso-hansi-font-family:calibri;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-bidi-font-family:'times new roman';mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-bidi-theme-font:minor-bidi">讲一点战术不要直接否定上司提出的建议。</span></strong><span style="font-size:10pt;font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:calibri;mso-hansi-font-family:calibri;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin">他可能从某种角度看问题，看到某些可取之处，也可能没征求你的意见。如果你认为不合适，最好用提问的方式，表示你的异议。如果你的观点基于某些他不知道的数据或情况，效果将会更佳。别怕向上司提供坏消息，当然要注意时间、地点、场合、方法。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size:10pt"><br /><font face="Calibri"> <strong><span style="font-family:'calibri','sans-serif';mso-bidi-font-family:'times new roman';mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-bidi-theme-font:minor-bidi">4.</span></strong></font></span><strong><span style="font-size:10pt;font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:calibri;mso-hansi-font-family:calibri;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-bidi-font-family:'times new roman';mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-bidi-theme-font:minor-bidi">解决好自己分内的问题。</span></strong><span style="font-size:10pt;font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:calibri;mso-hansi-font-family:calibri;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin">没有比不能解决自己职责分内问题的职员更使上司浪费时间了。</span><b><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size:10pt"><br /><strong><span style="font-family:'calibri','sans-serif';mso-bidi-font-family:'times new roman';mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-bidi-theme-font:minor-bidi"> 5.</span></strong></span></b><strong><span style="font-size:10pt;font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:calibri;mso-hansi-font-family:calibri;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-bidi-font-family:'times new roman';mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-bidi-theme-font:minor-bidi">维护上司的形象你应常向他透露新的信息，使他掌握自己工作领域的动态和现状。</span></strong><span style="font-size:10pt;font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:calibri;mso-hansi-font-family:calibri;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin">不过，这一切应在开会之前向他汇报，让他在会上谈出来，而不是由你在开会时大声炫耀。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size:10pt"><br /><font face="Calibri"> <strong><span style="font-family:'calibri','sans-serif';mso-bidi-font-family:'times new roman';mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-bidi-theme-font:minor-bidi">6.</span></strong></font></span><strong><span style="font-size:10pt;font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:calibri;mso-hansi-font-family:calibri;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-bidi-font-family:'times new roman';mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-bidi-theme-font:minor-bidi">积极工作。</span></strong><span style="font-size:10pt;font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:calibri;mso-hansi-font-family:calibri;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin">有经验的下属很少使用</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size:10pt"><font face="Calibri">“</font></span><span style="font-size:10pt;font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:calibri;mso-hansi-font-family:calibri;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin">困难</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size:10pt"><font face="Calibri">”</font></span><span style="font-size:10pt;font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:calibri;mso-hansi-font-family:calibri;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin">、</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size:10pt"><font face="Calibri">“</font></span><span style="font-size:10pt;font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:calibri;mso-hansi-font-family:calibri;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin">危机</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size:10pt"><font face="Calibri">”</font></span><span style="font-size:10pt;font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:calibri;mso-hansi-font-family:calibri;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin">、</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size:10pt"><font face="Calibri">“</font></span><span style="font-size:10pt;font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:calibri;mso-hansi-font-family:calibri;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin">挫折</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size:10pt"><font face="Calibri">”</font></span><span style="font-size:10pt;font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:calibri;mso-hansi-font-family:calibri;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin">等术语，他把困难的境况称为</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size:10pt"><font face="Calibri"> “</font></span><span style="font-size:10pt;font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:calibri;mso-hansi-font-family:calibri;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin">挑战</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size:10pt"><font face="Calibri">”</font></span><span style="font-size:10pt;font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:calibri;mso-hansi-font-family:calibri;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin">，并制订出计划以切实的行动迎接挑战。在上司前谈及你的同事时，要着眼于他们的长处，不是短处。否则将会影响你在人际</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size:10pt"><a href="http://www.ceconlinebbs.com/LT/&sup1;&Oslash;&Iuml;&micro;.HTM" target="_blank" swaped="true"><span lang="EN-US" style="color:windowtext;font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:calibri;mso-hansi-font-family:calibri;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin"><span lang="EN-US">关系</span></span></a></span><span style="font-size:10pt;font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:calibri;mso-hansi-font-family:calibri;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin">方面的声誉。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size:10pt"><br /><strong><span style="font-family:'calibri','sans-serif';mso-bidi-font-family:'times new roman';mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-bidi-theme-font:minor-bidi"> 7.</span></strong></span><strong><span style="font-size:10pt;font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:calibri;mso-hansi-font-family:calibri;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-bidi-font-family:'times new roman';mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-bidi-theme-font:minor-bidi">信守诺言如果你承诺的一项工作没兑现，他就会怀疑你是否能守信用。</span></strong><span style="font-size:10pt;font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:calibri;mso-hansi-font-family:calibri;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin">如果工作中你确实难以胜任时，要尽快向他说明。虽然他会有暂时的不快，但是要比到最后失望时产生的不满要好得多。</span><b><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size:10pt"><br /><strong><span style="font-family:'calibri','sans-serif';mso-bidi-font-family:'times new roman';mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-bidi-theme-font:minor-bidi"> 8.</span></strong></span></b><strong><span style="font-size:10pt;font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:calibri;mso-hansi-font-family:calibri;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-bidi-font-family:'times new roman';mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-bidi-theme-font:minor-bidi">了解你的上司。</span></strong><span style="font-size:10pt;font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:calibri;mso-hansi-font-family:calibri;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin">一个精明强干的上司欣赏的是能深刻地了解他，并知道他的愿望和情绪的下属。</span><b><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size:10pt"><br /><strong><span style="font-family:'calibri','sans-serif';mso-bidi-font-family:'times new roman';mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-bidi-theme-font:minor-bidi"> 9.</span></strong></span></b><strong><span style="font-size:10pt;font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:calibri;mso-hansi-font-family:calibri;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-bidi-font-family:'times new roman';mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-bidi-theme-font:minor-bidi">关系要适度。</span></strong><span style="font-size:10pt;font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:calibri;mso-hansi-font-family:calibri;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin">你与上司单位中的地位是不同的，这一点要心里有数。不要使关系过度紧密，以致卷入他的私人生活之中。与上司保持良好的关系，是与你富有创造性、富有成效的工作相一致的，你能尽职尽责，就是为上司做了最好的事情。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size:10pt"><p></p></span></p></font></font></font><p class="p0" style="margin-top:0pt;margin-bottom:0pt"><span style="font-size:10pt;font-family:'新宋体';mso-spacerun:'yes'"><p></p></span></p> 学习一下
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