嫁人，学李嘉欣别学周慧敏
<div id=blogDetailDiv style="FONT-SIZE: 16px">斯佳/文<br /><br />网友问我，你不是娱记，可为什么写娱乐比娱记更受欢迎？<br />我说：我写的不是娱乐，我在写感悟。 <br />好吧，言归正传，今天有感觉，写一篇。<br /><br />女人是泉州人，大学毕业那会儿十分青春，但绝非无敌，一场场相亲下来都只有一个结果：风萧萧兮易水寒，男人一去兮不复还。<br />等得不能再等时，她嫁了个初中毕业的男人。<br />彼时，男人以“壮士断腕”之气慨娶了她，从此颐指气使。女人辛苦地撑着家庭，篷头垢面，什么都以他人为主，却换不来一点疼惜。<br />直到她赚下一间美容店，她学会打扮自己，学会为自己花钱，学会计较丈夫的无理。她和男人的地位终于调了头。<br />年近40恢复单身，她却有着空前的自信。<br />她劝告女人们：一定要对自己好一点。<br /><br />是的，女人一定要为家庭为爱情为婚姻牺牲的时代已经过去了，<br />对自己好一点才是硬道理。<br /><br />看看李嘉欣，她爱了那么多次，可以轻易投入也可以轻易脱身而出，<br />她要的男人，第一有钱，第二以她为唯一的中心，<br />若能满足，便与你纠缠，若不能，她便另觅高枝。<br />不包容，不痴守，不牺牲，<br />因为她爱自己胜于爱别人。<br /><br />于是，她胜利了，<br />许晋亨和多少女星恋爱过，<br />年轻时候尚且没有激情和勇气为了刘嘉玲，与父母抗争到底，<br />到了经历过许多情海波澜，人入中年时，还为一个李嘉欣如此不屈不挠，<br />这里面，女人的魅力是个原因，男人的患得患失恐怕也是个原因。<br />李嘉欣不是刘嘉玲，她不会全副武装，焉定地守着要入许家，<br />她在婚姻路上走，闪过姓刘的可以找姓许的，没了许的，一样有别人。<br />反正爱她的男人不会只有一个。<br />重要的是，自己的心没失落。<br /><br />她爱得比他少，<br />所以她可以在大街上对他推推搡搡，他尚要陪笑脸，<br />她结了婚依然可以不受束缚，把问题都留给他，<br />他看她深情款款无限满足，她却独自庄重游离。<br /><wbr><a target=_blank href="http://s9.photo.store.qq.com/http_imgload.cgi?/rurl4_b=f88b2cf052936c1bbdb3aa1beb2ac4e18b435467f2373d28d381e93305f78fe32c6ed4d9a62aa818217cbd6f7c57d520cbca2e1d9d5525915a46b0ae9ce49c507023314cde26f68725393595bbe1f5fc9666961b" target=_blank><img height=373 src="http://s9.photo.store.qq.com/http_imgload.cgi?/rurl4_b=f88b2cf052936c1bbdb3aa1beb2ac4e18b435467f2373d28d381e93305f78fe32c6ed4d9a62aa818217cbd6f7c57d520cbca2e1d9d5525915a46b0ae9ce49c507023314cde26f68725393595bbe1f5fc9666961b" width=550 /></a><wbr><br /><br /><br /><br /><br />周慧敏就不同了，<br />她兜兜转转，分分合合，最终就认定了倪震，<br />她要嫁的是这个男人，有特定的面貌，特定的个性，特定的与她共同走过的路，<br />没有别人可替代。<br />她要守住爱情，要包容，隐忍，遭背叛也致以感恩，<br />独力承受，只为撑起一份完美。<br />真情纵然让人感动，到底是红颜薄命。<br /><br />今次是中年危机，<br />明日老年危机又汹涌来急，<br />男人自己尚且管不住自己，<br />别人怎么禁得住。<br /><br />爱太深伤也深，完美的爱情要留在记忆里，<br />放到现实里来天长地久，<br />则需要藏污纳垢，何以再谈美感。<br /><br />既然注定是弱者，那就找个真心爱护你的人。<br />女人要出嫁，还是学学李嘉欣，找个很爱很爱自己的人，<br />别学周慧敏，嫁那个自己很爱很爱的人。<br /></div><img id=paperPicArea1 style="DISPLAY: none; POSITION: relative" height=1 src="http://blog.qq.com/ac/b.gif" width=1 /> 刘嘉玲如何？[求助]历史违规在2012年新要求中是否还是违反要求
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0cm 0cm 0pt"><font size="3"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:simsun;mso-ascii-font-family:'times new roman';mso-hansi-font-family:'times new roman';mso-fareast-language:zh-cn">各位同仁，</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-font-family:simsun;mso-fareast-language:zh-cn"><font face="Times New Roman">2012</font></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:simsun;mso-ascii-font-family:'times new roman';mso-hansi-font-family:'times new roman';mso-fareast-language:zh-cn">年</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-font-family:simsun;mso-fareast-language:zh-cn"><font face="Times New Roman">ICTI</font></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:simsun;mso-ascii-font-family:'times new roman';mso-hansi-font-family:'times new roman';mso-fareast-language:zh-cn">提出了最新的要求，故本人存在以下疑问：</span><span lang="EN-US"><p></p></span></font></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0cm 0cm 0pt"><font size="3"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:simsun;mso-ascii-font-family:'times new roman';mso-hansi-font-family:'times new roman';mso-fareast-language:zh-cn">如某工厂</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-font-family:simsun;mso-fareast-language:zh-cn"><font face="Times New Roman">2012</font></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:simsun;mso-ascii-font-family:'times new roman';mso-hansi-font-family:'times new roman';mso-fareast-language:zh-cn">年</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-font-family:simsun;mso-fareast-language:zh-cn"><font face="Times New Roman">10</font></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:simsun;mso-ascii-font-family:'times new roman';mso-hansi-font-family:'times new roman';mso-fareast-language:zh-cn">月份进行年度审核</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-font-family:simsun;mso-fareast-language:zh-cn"><font face="Times New Roman">(B</font></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:simsun;mso-ascii-font-family:'times new roman';mso-hansi-font-family:'times new roman';mso-fareast-language:zh-cn">证</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-font-family:simsun;mso-fareast-language:zh-cn"><font face="Times New Roman">)</font></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:simsun;mso-ascii-font-family:'times new roman';mso-hansi-font-family:'times new roman';mso-fareast-language:zh-cn">，该工厂</span><chsdate wst="on" isrocdate="False" islunardate="False" day="1" year="2012"><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-font-family:simsun;mso-fareast-language:zh-cn"><font face="Times New Roman">2012</font></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:simsun;mso-ascii-font-family:'times new roman';mso-hansi-font-family:'times new roman';mso-fareast-language:zh-cn">年</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-font-family:simsun;mso-fareast-language:zh-cn"><font face="Times New Roman">4</font></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:simsun;mso-ascii-font-family:'times new roman';mso-hansi-font-family:'times new roman';mso-fareast-language:zh-cn">月</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-font-family:simsun;mso-fareast-language:zh-cn"><font face="Times New Roman">1</font></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:simsun;mso-ascii-font-family:'times new roman';mso-hansi-font-family:'times new roman';mso-fareast-language:zh-cn">日</span></chsdate><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:simsun;mso-ascii-font-family:'times new roman';mso-hansi-font-family:'times new roman';mso-fareast-language:zh-cn">以前在工时方面不符合</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-font-family:simsun;mso-fareast-language:zh-cn"><font face="Times New Roman">A</font></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:simsun;mso-ascii-font-family:'times new roman';mso-hansi-font-family:'times new roman';mso-fareast-language:zh-cn">证的要求。现</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-font-family:simsun;mso-fareast-language:zh-cn"><font face="Times New Roman">ICTI</font></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:simsun;mso-ascii-font-family:'times new roman';mso-hansi-font-family:'times new roman';mso-fareast-language:zh-cn">最新</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-font-family:simsun;mso-fareast-language:zh-cn"><font face="Times New Roman">A</font></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:simsun;mso-ascii-font-family:'times new roman';mso-hansi-font-family:'times new roman';mso-fareast-language:zh-cn">级证书在工时方面的要求是</span><span lang="EN-US"><p></p></span></font></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0cm 0cm 0pt"><font size="3"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:simsun;mso-ascii-font-family:'times new roman';mso-hansi-font-family:'times new roman';mso-fareast-language:zh-cn">周工时：至少：</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-font-family:simsun;mso-fareast-language:zh-cn"><font face="Times New Roman">40</font></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:simsun;mso-ascii-font-family:'times new roman';mso-hansi-font-family:'times new roman';mso-fareast-language:zh-cn">周，周工时小于</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-font-family:simsun;mso-fareast-language:zh-cn"><font face="Times New Roman">66</font></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:simsun;mso-ascii-font-family:'times new roman';mso-hansi-font-family:'times new roman';mso-fareast-language:zh-cn">小时；季节性加班：最多</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-font-family:simsun;mso-fareast-language:zh-cn"><font face="Times New Roman">12</font></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:simsun;mso-ascii-font-family:'times new roman';mso-hansi-font-family:'times new roman';mso-fareast-language:zh-cn">周，周工作时间大于</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-font-family:simsun;mso-fareast-language:zh-cn"><font face="Times New Roman">66</font></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:simsun;mso-ascii-font-family:'times new roman';mso-hansi-font-family:'times new roman';mso-fareast-language:zh-cn">小时，而不大于</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-font-family:simsun;mso-fareast-language:zh-cn"><font face="Times New Roman">72</font></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:simsun;mso-ascii-font-family:'times new roman';mso-hansi-font-family:'times new roman';mso-fareast-language:zh-cn">小时。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-language:zh-cn"><p></p></span></font></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0cm 0cm 0pt"><font size="3"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:simsun;mso-ascii-font-family:'times new roman';mso-hansi-font-family:'times new roman';mso-fareast-language:zh-cn">如果按</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-font-family:simsun;mso-fareast-language:zh-cn"><font face="Times New Roman">2012</font></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:simsun;mso-ascii-font-family:'times new roman';mso-hansi-font-family:'times new roman';mso-fareast-language:zh-cn">年度审核的时间范围是</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-font-family:simsun;mso-fareast-language:zh-cn"><font face="Times New Roman">2011</font></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:simsun;mso-ascii-font-family:'times new roman';mso-hansi-font-family:'times new roman';mso-fareast-language:zh-cn">年</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-font-family:simsun;mso-fareast-language:zh-cn"><font face="Times New Roman">9</font></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:simsun;mso-ascii-font-family:'times new roman';mso-hansi-font-family:'times new roman';mso-fareast-language:zh-cn">月份至</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-font-family:simsun;mso-fareast-language:zh-cn"><font face="Times New Roman">2012</font></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:simsun;mso-ascii-font-family:'times new roman';mso-hansi-font-family:'times new roman';mso-fareast-language:zh-cn">年</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-font-family:simsun;mso-fareast-language:zh-cn"><font face="Times New Roman">10</font></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:simsun;mso-ascii-font-family:'times new roman';mso-hansi-font-family:'times new roman';mso-fareast-language:zh-cn">月份，而该工厂在</span><chsdate wst="on" isrocdate="False" islunardate="False" day="1" year="2012"><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-font-family:simsun;mso-fareast-language:zh-cn"><font face="Times New Roman">2012</font></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:simsun;mso-ascii-font-family:'times new roman';mso-hansi-font-family:'times new roman';mso-fareast-language:zh-cn">年</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-font-family:simsun;mso-fareast-language:zh-cn"><font face="Times New Roman">4</font></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:simsun;mso-ascii-font-family:'times new roman';mso-hansi-font-family:'times new roman';mso-fareast-language:zh-cn">月</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-font-family:simsun;mso-fareast-language:zh-cn"><font face="Times New Roman">1</font></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:simsun;mso-ascii-font-family:'times new roman';mso-hansi-font-family:'times new roman';mso-fareast-language:zh-cn">日</span></chsdate><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:simsun;mso-ascii-font-family:'times new roman';mso-hansi-font-family:'times new roman';mso-fareast-language:zh-cn">以前的周工时是不符合</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-font-family:simsun;mso-fareast-language:zh-cn"><font face="Times New Roman">A</font></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:simsun;mso-ascii-font-family:'times new roman';mso-hansi-font-family:'times new roman';mso-fareast-language:zh-cn">级证书的要求，那么</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-font-family:simsun;mso-fareast-language:zh-cn"><font face="Times New Roman">2012</font></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:simsun;mso-ascii-font-family:'times new roman';mso-hansi-font-family:'times new roman';mso-fareast-language:zh-cn">年</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-font-family:simsun;mso-fareast-language:zh-cn"><font face="Times New Roman">10</font></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:simsun;mso-ascii-font-family:'times new roman';mso-hansi-font-family:'times new roman';mso-fareast-language:zh-cn">月份申请年审的话，是否能够获得</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-font-family:simsun;mso-fareast-language:zh-cn"><font face="Times New Roman">A</font></span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:simsun;mso-ascii-font-family:'times new roman';mso-hansi-font-family:'times new roman';mso-fareast-language:zh-cn">级证书？</span></font><span lang="EN-US"><p></p></span></p>
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